Wow, time is passing quickly and now I am getting nervous! I will enter the window in just 2 weeks!!!!!!! I am prepared for referral times to increase. My agency is quoting 3-5 months, and just 3 months ago referrals were coming closer to the earlier part of the timeframe. Now referrals are easily exceeding that timeframe. So I am predicting within one month, the agency will change the referral time to at the very least 4-6 months but more than like 5-7 months. I am not at all stressed by that. I believe my child will be referred to me, despite timeframes and case coordinators, and law changes and regulations, she will be my daughter and I will be her mom.
Not to mention, I take the Bar Exam in February and I don't know why I thought traveling BEFORE that would make ANY SENSE AT ALL!
So my new referral guess: 12/05 (No scientific calculations, its my brother's birthday lol) up from 10/16 (Michigan Sweetest Day lol). With travel week 1 of March!
To all my PAP's (adoption speak: Prospective Adoptive Parent) hang in there, our time is not always the right time. There are greater forces in the universe that contribute (I know weird huh).
TTYL Robbin
Your daughter WILL come to you, and though it may be hard to believe it now, she will come at the perfect time. Though I can sure relate to entering a timeframe, only to have that timeframe move.
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